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The bedtime of middle childhood.

Today I am sharing our version of bedtime, as part of a wonderful blog circle of talented photographers sharing their own versions. Bedtime is one of those routines that we as families do every single night, but don’t often think of as special enough to document. I’m here to say that if my children should ever become moody teenagers who shun these lovely bedtime customs, I’ll have these photos to comfort me. If you don’t have your own family’s bedtime photographed yet, hop to it! Be sure to follow the link at the bottom to the next bedtime adventure. Which one looks most like your own? shoreview photographyWelcome to the bedtime of middle childhood, which looks so very different than the bedtimes of five or so years ago. We’ve gone from baths to showers. From laying lotioned baby buns on a changing table for a fresh nighttime diaper to kids who rarely wear actual pajamas, since putting on your clothes for the next morning is so much more efficient. Their hands are occupied, which I believe began last summer when Alla learned to knit, and then, also wanting to have a craft, Fisher did some cross-stitching. There are also Rainbow Loom nights, and drawing nights, and secret Christmas card-making nights, as well as just quiet friend-snuggling nights. shoreview photographerAlways present is a book, and this, aside from the friend menagerie, may be the one constant from babyhood and then toddlerhood and preschool bedtimes. Always a book. In our house, Mom and Dad take turns reading, alternating nights. We each have a book going with the kids, and I am always amazed at their abilities to keep them straight, and to remember where we left off. Currently I am reading Half Magic and Ron is reading Lord of the Rings. shoreview mn photographer jjkillinsphotographyAt the end of bedtime stories, we tuck them in and say bedtime prayers. Sometimes they are allowed to read for awhile longer, sometimes it is sleepy time. And then kisses and hugs, and night-night. Some nights we snuggle longer, some nights, Mom and Dad are ready for a break. shoreview documentary photography I cannot wait to see what the other photographers’ bedtime stories look like! Please click the link here to follow our blog circle to see Amanda Sheehan of Little Tootsie’s Photography’s post: Cincinnati Family Photographer – and have fun!

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My daughter maintains her undying love for the neighbor’s chickens, though mainly this one, her Starlight. The one she holds and feeds and sometimes even tries to bathe.

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I could spend all of fall getting these summer images up! I love the snippets of time I get to go through them.

Photographs heighten your memory of the moment.

Fleeting summer.

shoreview photographyDo you feel how fast summer is moving? I feel these long lazy days where afternoons loll on and on, and yet I look at the calendar and find us in the last week of July, and then suddenly I am scrambling. Have we done enough stuff? Will we have time for more? If the summer were over now, would it be enough for them, for me, to feel I was a good mama this summer.

Don’t shush me, I know all about mom guilt and my head tells me of course it’s enough. And also we could stay home all day and do nothing and to them those are the best days. The B-Days, Fisher says. I just have to keep listening to that smart brain of mine and looking around to see that they are indeed happy. This is so much for them.

For moms, though, it’s never enough. Because when afternoons get long, they drift off looking for friends to play with, and I am content with the quiet, yet always wanting more. More snuggles, more kisses, more chapters, more memories.

When the hours that they are out there bouncing around with friends gets real long for me, I have these pictures, all these pictures! So many pictures, all the days of this summer that I am treasuring.

Capture the moments, be with your kids, hand over your camera, prove you were there, too (I’m working on that). And if you still need more, book a summer session with me. I’ll capture it all for you.

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Summer Reading Lists | Minnesota summer

I have a treat for you today if by chance you might be like me and feel yourself just slightly under prepared for children being home all the hours of the whole entire summer. I happened upon this summer reading list concept at The Art of Simple before last summer, made each of my kids a reading list, told them to pick ten and then pick a reward if they completed the ten. My kids like to read, they would read anyway, but this expanded their reading in wonderful ways. My six year old read Regarding the Fountain, Diary of a Wimpy Kid, and the first I Survived book. This led to reading all of the Wimpy Kid books and all of the I Survived books. The purpose of a mom-created summer reading list is to introduce kiddos to books they haven’t heard of, genres they don’t naturally read, and the first books in series that will hook them.

Homework is done at our school, and it’s pretty much playtime all day every day until the last day, so tonight I unveiled this summer’s reading lists with flourish. I even let them stay up til nine to get started, but do not tell their father because he thinks they are sound asleep up there. Anyway, you’d have thought I handed them, um, iPads to play with before bedtime the way their faces lit up.

Whether you adopt this awesome concept from The Art of Simple, find a few titles your kiddos would adore, or just love looking at book lists as much as I do, here are our summer reading lists for 2015!
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